Her Recovery Journey

Your world just shattered. Your reality shifted. Your heart was broken in a place you thought was safe. When a woman discovers her husband's hidden pornography use or sexual addiction, the impact is devastating. It's more than disappointment — it is betrayal trauma, a wound that affects the mind, body, and soul. Her Recovery Journey is not another book about "fixing him." It is a compassionate, faith-centered guide created specifically for your healing. In these pages, Julian Hayes walks beside you through the three essential phases of recovery: Part 1 — The Triage Phase Understand your shock, panic, sleeplessness, and hypervigilance as a real trauma response — not weakness. Learn grounding tools, emotional first aid, and the truth about betrayal. Part 2 — The Detachment Phase Step out of the cycle of policing, rescuing, and over-functioning. Break free from the "Accountability Trap," set boundaries that protect you (not control him), and release the burden of being his Holy Spirit. Part 3 — The Reconstruction Phase Rebuild your identity, self-worth, spiritual life, and vision for the future — whether or not he chooses recovery. You will find: Trauma-informed strategies Biblical truth without shame Emotional and spiritual tools Practical steps Real-life stories of survival A pathway toward Radical Wholeness You are not crazy. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. God sees you, holds you, and invites you into restoration and strength. Let this book be the hand that helps you rise from the ashes.