How to Find a Good Husband

Why this little book? What could a eighty year old grandfather know about how to find a good husband? That's a really good question and I should probably explain why that is so. To start with, women are the worst treated people in the world. Most men would agree that it's a man's world. Most women do not get paid the same as men, and I recently noted that the stock of one company went down when a woman was added to the board of directors. That is just appalling as it is quite possible that the new female board of directors may be smarter than the men on the board. I guess the problem is the word female. That's where things part between me and many of my male friends, as I see great value in women and always have. My most wonderful wife from the start of our marriage made it OK to have women friends. I guess the reason for writing this is that I see so many women being abused by men. Most women are more trusting than men and there lies the problem. There is the trust thing that does not fit with reality. The reality is that men are generally messed up and don't really understand what it is to be a man or they are just in it for themselves. There is not much that can be done about that. Even worse many women think that they can change a man into this Pollyanna ideal person they dream about. Or even worse, he is horrible and nasty but I love him so I'll just let him mess up my life! So the real reason for writing this book is that I want to be your grandfather at least in this book. I want to tell you that women are wasting their trust if they are being taken for granted or being abused. And generally, women are really bad judges of men. Women can be so wonderful and trusting, but that is where the trouble can start.