Love, Lust, and Loyalty : Understanding Attraction, Integrity, and the Commitment That Holds Love Together

What makes a relationship strong, intimate, and unbreakably loyal? The answer lies in the delicate dance of three forces: love, lust, and loyalty. In this transformative, culturally rich, and deeply human guide, Dr (Mrs) Doris C. Njoku blends psychology, emotional intelligence, spiritual insight, and real-case experiences from couples across continents to reveal the invisible dynamics that shape modern relationships. Drawing from global cultures—including Africa, the Caribbean, Europe, North America, and the diaspora—she unveils how upbringing, personality, emotional patterns, temptation, and communication scripts quietly shape the fate of love. Whether you are dating, married, engaged, rebuilding trust, or navigating the pressures of a fast-paced digital world, this book equips you with practical tools and compassionate wisdom to help you: • Decode the architecture of attraction—why you chose your partner, and why desire rises or fades • Build communication that heals, not harms • Strengthen emotional safety—the true foundation of loyalty • Understand temptation and protect your relationship with integrity • Rebuild trust after hurt, betrayal, or emotional disconnection • Navigate cultural expectations, gender pressures, finances, and roles with unity and respect • Create a thriving home environment and a shared vision for your future More than a relationship manual, Love, Lust, and Loyalty is a companion—filled with worksheets, scripts, real stories, psychological insights, and step-by-step frameworks that invite couples to grow with clarity, courage, and compassion. If you've ever wondered why love feels magical at first but difficult to maintain… If you've ever feared losing connection, passion, or trust… If you desire a relationship that is emotionally intimate, spiritually aligned, physically fulfilling, and unwaveringly loyal— this book is your roadmap. Powerful. Honest. Transformational. A timeless guide for couples who want love that lasts.