So You Got A Divorce

Going through a divorce as a man can feel like your entire world just collapsed. Everything you thought was permanent is gone, your routine is destroyed, and you're left wondering who you even are without being someone's husband. This book is your roadmap for not just surviving divorce, but actually coming out stronger on the other side. So You Got A Divorce delivers honest, practical guidance for every aspect of life after marriage ends. Author Sergei Wallace doesn't sugarcoat the reality or feed you platitudes about everything happening for a reason. Instead, he provides actionable strategies that actually work for men dealing with the immediate chaos, the emotional rollercoaster, and the long journey of rebuilding. Inside these pages you'll discover how to handle the first devastating weeks when nothing feels real, how to process anger and grief without letting them consume you, and why therapy isn't just for people with serious problems. You'll learn to establish new routines that give structure to your days, manage your finances on a single income, and take care of your physical health when everything else feels like it's falling apart. If you have children, this guide tackles the hardest parts of co-parenting with an ex you might not be able to stand right now. You'll get real strategies for communication that keeps things civil, helping your kids adjust to their new reality, and being present when you only have them part time. The book covers rebuilding your social life when mutual friends take sides, dealing with crushing loneliness, and figuring out who you are outside of being a husband. When you're ready, there's an entire section on dating again that covers everything from creating online profiles to handling intimacy with someone new to knowing when you're actually ready for another serious relationship. Whether your divorce was your choice or hers, whether it was amicable or a war zone, whether you saw it coming or it blindsided you, this book meets you where you are and helps you move forward.