Summary of Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

This audiobook is narrated by a digital voice. Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is the no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Instead of focusing on rescuing a broken relationship, this book is about saving your sanity, restoring your self-respect, and rebuilding a stronger, brighter future. Too often, conversations around infidelity center on the cheater—their unmet needs, their struggles with commitment, their excuses. Tracy Schorn, also known as Chump Lady, flips the script with biting humor and honesty, shifting the focus back to where it belongs: the betrayed partner. Packed with practical advice, the book dismantles the myths and blameshifting that cheaters rely on, while offering clarity and validation for the one left reeling. With snark, sass, and real-world wisdom, Schorn covers everything from the absurd things cheaters say and how to respond, to the rookie mistakes of the recently betrayed and how to avoid them. She shows you why it’s never your fault, how to set boundaries, and how to protect yourself emotionally and practically as you move forward. Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life isn’t just a survival guide—it’s a roadmap to healing and thriving. Schorn is the brutally honest, supportive friend who gets you through the heartbreak and reminds you that betrayal isn’t the end of your story, but the start of a better, stronger one.