Behind You

The 21st century has rewritten the rules of parenting. Why are you still using a map from the past? Most of us entered parenthood carrying a heavy invisible backpack: the techniques, commands, and patterns we inherited from our own parents. But in today's world, those old tools are not just outdated—they are breaking our relationships with our children. If we fail to adapt to the emotional needs of this new generation, we don't just lose their cooperation; we lose our connection with them. Behind You is not another manual on how to "fix" your child. It is a radical guide to fixing the bridge between you and your child. In this book, parenting and relationship expert Peter Avid introduces a transformative approach to family life. He reveals that the secret to a peaceful home isn't found in more discipline, but in a stronger Parental Alliance. Inside this book, you will discover: The 5 Levels of Communication: Why moving from "Level 1 Commands" to "Level 5 Autonomy" is the only way to raise a self-reliant child. The "Behind You" Factor: How a united front between parents creates an invisible safety net that stops power struggles instantly. The Mirror Method: How to master self-regulation so your child reflects your calm instead of your chaos. The 3-Second Gap: A simple technique to stop reacting and start leading in the heat of the moment. Daily One Victory: How to achieve lasting change through small, conscious shifts every single day. Parenting in the 21st century is a marathon, not a sprint. If you feel exhausted, ignored, or stuck in a cycle of shouting, it's time to drop the old map. It's time to build a foundation where your child knows—no matter what—that you are standing firmly behind them. Stop commanding. Start connecting. Build your alliance today.