Decentering Men: Stop Performing, Start Living

You're exhausted pretending to laugh at terrible jokes. You're broke from doing unpaid work professionals charge thousands for. You're accepting treatment you'd never tolerate from anyone else. This reveals the performance keeping you trapped. Discover why low maintenance actually means accepting whatever men give you. Learn how men test boundaries to measure your tolerance for disrespect. Understand why refusing to need anything makes you exploitable. You'll get tactical exits from fake performances draining your energy. See exactly when he's testing you and how walking away passes every test. Know which questions to refuse answering because honesty becomes ammunition. Stop managing emotions for men who call you crazy for having feelings. Quit laughing when nothing's funny to avoid awkward silence. Refuse doing tasks any adult can google themselves. This targets women realizing nice gets you used. Women watching low maintenance friends get picked last. Women ready to enforce boundaries without explaining themselves. Your body during pregnancy builds humans, not decorations. Your emotional labor costs more than what he earns. Your needs aren't excessive just because his are invisible. Walk out when tests start. Block numbers after cancelled plans. Keep separate bank accounts always. Spend his money freely or refuse him access to your time.