Right Demands, Wrong People

This book exists to challenge a quiet but damaging belief: that wanting care, consistency, and emotional presence means you are asking for too much. Many people carry this belief for years, shaped by relationships where their needs were met with resistance, guilt, or silence. Over time, they stop trusting themselves and start shrinking to keep connection intact. Right Demands, Wrong People explores why reasonable needs often feel excessive in the wrong relationships. It looks at emotional unavailability, attachment mismatches, and the subtle dynamics that make self-doubt seem logical. Rather than offering quick fixes or surface-level advice, this book focuses on understanding patterns, restoring self-trust, and recognizing when the problem is not what you are asking for, but who you are asking. This book is for anyone who has felt like a burden for wanting basic emotional safety. It is not about learning how to demand more, but about learning where your needs belong. By the final page, the goal is simple: to help you stop questioning your worth and start choosing relationships that meet you with clarity, respect, and care.