The Disruption

Here's what this book will do: It will help you understand why your life is falling apart (or why it needs to). It will show you the cycles you've been running on autopilot, the ones that feel like fate but are actually just habit dressed up in fancy clothing. It will name the enemy—and spoiler alert, the enemy is rarely who you think it is. It will sit with you in the rubble and refuse to let you rush past the grief.Here's what this book will not do: It will not give you a five-step plan to feel better by next Tuesday. It will not tell you to "just think positive" while your world is burning. It will not offer you spiritual bypass in a nice package with a bow. And it will not, under any circumstances, let you off the hook.This book is about the moment everything falls apart. Not because you failed, but because something in you—something wiser and older than your anxious little ego—decided that the structure you were living in had to come down. It was built on the wrong foundation. Built by other people's expectations, by survival strategies you developed when you were too young to know better, by lies that got passed down through your family line like heirlooms nobody asked for.