Men in Heels: How Men Changed, and Women Chose Themselves

Men in Heels: How Men Changed, and Women Chose Themselves By Mbengnchang Tataw "They drained our softness, mocked our strength, and called it love. So, we stopped chasing and started choosing ourselves." Men in Heels is not a book about hating men. It's a book about seeing them really seeing them for what they've become in a world where ego walks taller than empathy. It's about the modern man who craves worship more than partnership, validation more than vision. It's about the women who gave their all-time, tenderness, loyalty and watched their energy slowly drain into men who mistook devotion for weakness. In this groundbreaking, poetic memoir, Mbengnchang Tataw bares the truth behind today's romantic illusion: how love turned transactional, how women turned inward, and how heartbreak became holy ground for rebirth. From the shimmering streets of Dubai to the quiet corners of her solitude, she reveals what it means to be an African woman navigating love, loneliness, and liberation in a modern desert of desire. Inside This Bold, Soul-Stirring Book: ?? Prologue: The Men Who Drained and Defined Us: The dates, the ego, the lessons learned through heartbreak and humility. ?? African Woman in Exile: Being admired but rarely chosen; seen yet invisible. ??? Words That Bruised the Soul: The real phrases men said the ones that cut deepest and shaped her strength. ?? Men in Heels: The men who stand tall on borrowed confidence and fragile pride. ??? The Table Talk: The infamous question: "What do you bring to the table?" and how women learned they are the table. ??? Solitude: The Rebellion of Peace: Turning loneliness into luxury and silence into