Stand To: Living With Military PTSD

Stand To: Recognising, Treating, and Living with Military PTSD — Paperback Description Contact. Stand to. The tour ends; the long war doesn't. I write this because I live with it—Complex PTSD dogging my heels since service—and I speak in our language: tempo, dark humour, pride, and the silence that keeps too many of us isolated. This isn't theory. It's a field manual built from lived experience and hard-won support. Built for serving personnel, veterans, and families in the blast radius, Stand To strips the noise away and turns chaos into decisions you can act on today. Inside you'll find plain-English briefings, checklists, and short "mission drills" you can repeat under pressure—plus tools for partners and children—so you hold ground on bad days and consolidate gains on good ones. You'll learn to recognise what's really happening—how trauma rewires the brain; why combat PTSD often differs from civilian trauma; where TBI complicates recovery; and how moral injury can spin your compass. Then you'll map triggers, manage flashbacks and dissociation, dial down hypervigilance, and fight for sleep when the night turns hostile. This manual transitions smoothly from understanding to action. Chapters cover: recognising PTSD in the ranks; the journey from "shell shock" to PTSD; brain changes under fire; combat vs civilian PTSD; TBI + PTSD; moral injury; triggers; flashbacks and dissociation; hypervigilance; sleep; anger, guilt, and survivor's logic; avoidance and numbness; how "the body remembers"; self-medication; culture and stigma; families in the blast radius; talking to children; work and purpose after the regiment; peer fire support; first-line treatments that work; medication—tools, side-effects, expectations; nervous-system "body armour"; faith, meaning, and repair; building your personal Trigger Map; the Household SOP; the Crisis Action Plan; digital discipline; After Action Reviews; setbacks; and living the long war well. Every section concludes in the same way soldiers learn best: with a Veteran Checklist, Family Support Actions, Mission Drill, and a UK care pathway pointer—linking you to real routes of support and clinical care. If you're suffering, you're not alone: from your GP to Op COURAGE, Combat Stress, and veterans' services, some people understand the culture and have your back. Reaching out isn't failure; it's a tactical decision. No fluff. No romance. Just clear, repeatable actions that bring you back to the present when memory tries to pull you under. Use it at home, at work, on the road—anywhere life goes loud. I can't promise easy. I can promise honesty, precision, and a route that holds under pressure—one deliberate, ordinary day at a time. For serving, veteran, and family readers who need a steady hand, Stand To is your practical, UK-grounded guide to recognising, treating, and living with military PTSD—written by someone who knows the weight and the way out.