Why We Separate

WHY WE DIVORCE YOU THOUGHT THE PROBLEM WAS YOUR PARTNER. YOU WERE WRONG. 69% of all divorces are initiated by women. Among highly educated women: 90%. But 99% of girls' night conversations are about how hopeless men are. Strange mathematics, right? Vincent Brightmore tears apart all comfortable explanations and shows you why your marriage will probably end in divorce - and how you can stop it before it happens. WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER: • Why 20+ years of Disney poisoning sabotages every relationship you try to build • The mathematics behind why modern relationships fail (hint: it's not communication) • How dating apps trained your brain for relational failure • Why "the right person" doesn't exist - only right timing and maturity • The truth about calendar sex and how routines kill passion BRUTAL REALITY ABOUT MODERN LOVE: • 90% of what you "love" about new partners are fantasies you created yourself • Modern women do unconscious cost-benefit analyses on their relationships • Netflix addiction is the disease. Calendar sex is just the symptom. • Must be authentic and honest. Otherwise it's like two ghosts meeting. WARNING: This book will destroy your comfortable illusions. You'll understand that love isn't a feeling - it's a position you choose to take. That marriages don't fail because of big crises but suffocate from thousands of missed everyday moments. That you must first become the person you want to meet. "You can't be an emotionally immature, self-centered, conflict-avoiding version of yourself and then get angry that you attract emotionally immature, self-centered, conflict-avoiding partners. " — Vincent Brightmore PRACTICAL RESCUE TOOLS INCLUDED: • Information hierarchy that saves marriages • Everyday foreplay as the solution for guys complaining about too little sex • Four walls that hold up the roof of an entire life together • Concrete steps to break Disney poisoning • The way back from routine's relationship death IMPORTANT: This book MUST be read by two people. Buy a copy for your partner or wait until you meet someone mature enough to handle uncomfortable truths. A brutal guide from the last honest voice about love in a world of professional liars.