Not All Men ?

"Not all men." You've probably said it. Maybe you've thought it. And you're right—it's not all men. But here's the question most men never ask themselves: Where do I actually fall? This book isn't about whether you're a rapist or not. It's not that simple. There's a continuum. At one end, the worst offenders. At the other end, men who actively work to stop violence. And in between? That's where most men actually are—doing things that enable the problem without even realizing it. The joke you laughed at. The friend you didn't call out. The conversation where you stayed quiet. The culture you participate in without thinking about it. This book will show you where you actually stand. Not where you want to believe you are, but where your actions place you. It's not here to shame you. It's here to give you a framework for understanding something you might have been missing. And then it's going to show you what you can actually do about it. If you're curious, read it. If you're defensive, read it anyway—that defensiveness might be telling you something. If you want to actually help instead of just thinking you help, this will show you how. Direct. Honest. Uncomfortable when it needs to be. But also: actionable. Because understanding the problem is only the first step.